And you just assume I am a man because it never enters your intolerant head that a woman could actually want to put herself under her husbands headship. Yes, many Muslims and Hindus follow male headship. Are you able to support yourself okay? You get all edgy. He thinks this makes me more submissive, and thus more available to learn from Gods word. Instead, they wanted to know what I had done wrong to need to be punished and felt that I had abandoned my wedding vows when I left him. s Christian Domestic Discipline Marriage Youre the one admitting on a public blog that you like to be spanked. The ones who claim they enjoy it have psychological issues, but its not due to wanting to be abused that is sick. (LogOut/ campaign, Christian Domestic Discipline/Loving Wife Spanking in a Christian Marriage is not satire -- and I just can't get it out of my head. And the whole of the Christian Far East. You are a very dogmatic person. They told me that I needed to do a better job of obeying and not being disrespectful or difficult and told me I needed to pray more to be a better wife. Its perverse secular culture which advocates and promoted S&M kinky bedroom games not the Bible. Jamin was holding up his left hand and motioning his right hand into his left hand as he explained [redacted] actions. He absolutely WILL be back. Christian Domestic Discipline (Wife Spanking And you seem to see yourself not as a good child, a child of the light, but as a dark child. I debated putting this in the Godly ladies' thread but decided that I would risk my reputation to be thought of as forward because this is just too good to keep from men. But I think there are probably other women in conservative or controlling Christian households where the husband thinks it is OK to spank his wife like just another child in the house. I do not and will not oblige him in his depravity. Unless the woman is locked in a basement like something on an episode of CSI Special Victims Unit, she is there by choice. We had a post on this a while ago in some marriages, yes. But I do reinterpret it in light of those experiences, and the light of common sense and human decency. These abused wivesare treated as children or objects to be owned. Some men have apparently abused their authority, therefore any men having authority is bad. It doesnt follow. In light of this typical new customer journey, I think its reasonable to suggest that people choosing this lifestyle put much more thinking into their relationships and are more intellectually alert than the average person going the default way. It is only going to increase as people go frustrated by the negative effects of domestic ideology on their happiness and increasingly get to the point of questioning everything. I am therefore by no mean the spokeman of everything thats being done under the sun (and couldnt even if I wanted it). I bought some lingerie (nothing really scandalous) and wore a pair one night. People wanna chop their weenie, so thats what they do. You have made my point. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied. States have laws limiting marriage of close relatives. I told Jamin I saw marks on [redacted] neck and they appeared to have been caused by the end of fingers, possibly nails. Another thing to bear in mind is that all Domestic Violence services are underfunded so the workers are vevy busy. It is not a defense of Domestic Discipline. It was not required (since I know lots of kids in my youth groups were in regular schools) but home-schooling was definitely pushed. Well, actually, to pray for abused women, even though we do not know who they are, is to accomplish much. It seems like my husbands leadership skills have developed so strongly. They have since been removed from YouTube. the problem with domestic discipline, as with teacher/student sexual assault is that it is improbable that there was true consent. And even then, he was only sarcastic in this verse because he was about to perform a miracle before them (the context is that Elijah challenged them to perform a miracle and they failed, they agreed that they would first perform a miracle and that then Elijah would perform one to see who was serving the true God). It's not a book on Christian Domestic Discipline, but on Domestic Discipline and was written by a woman. At first Ben was not consistent, and didnt spank me nearly hard enough. Jennas Punishment Spanking (Christian Domestic Discipline Marriage #1) During a disagreement, Jenna storms out of the house without telling her husband where she's going. ;) I am neither kinky, nor a doormat. . Because Mark does not like them, people having this vision for their life should go to their jail? No wonder Lauren was so confused in her marriage. But intolerance is intolerance, and here you are intolerant against religious freedom. We need to be aware of the existence of this atrocity in our churches and be bold in calling it out when we see it. I am sorry. (the link to their blog is currently on the upper left hand side of the page): When you first commented on here, I was prepared to hear you out I know someone personally who has fetishes, and hes admitted to me that can be a struggle for him in his marriage. Honestly I feel like I feel like these testimonials are written by perverts mostly old men who never had have been married or just absolutely disgusting men who are trying to make this normal I dont think these are actually written by real people actually experiencing this mess because quite honestly I would hope if you were that much of a Christian, that much in a head of household relationship your husband would not be comfortable with you describing your sore, red bottom if so he is as much of a pervert as that Pastor was. Whatever you want. Our church also pushed heavily this idea of modesty even at young levels. He is giving me enough leeway so I am not really stressed about it, and since our test spank, I know what Im in for if I fail. THATS JUST WRONG! The church needs to know this is going on. I can see from your posts that you have major issues with men, Some men are sexist, selfish, or abusive pigs. Focusing on building our own happy families is the best law we can pass and the best data science we can make because it will make a lasting impression on people and they will engrave in their hearts. I think you should take the time to study what you want to criticize for you do not know what you are talking about (and this is not some sort of insulting rethoric, this is to be taken literally). (There are no passages that support spanking. I know its hard, but it must be do-able by the grace of God and the power of Holy Spirit because our Lord Jesus said: Im wondering what their thoughts were on it? Since that law came out in 2004, I have yet to hear of a spanking incident as such, and I havent even seen anyone spank their child in public. Oh boy, here we go. Have a great day. Send in your testimonials! Do not expect her to be silent through this experience though. I personally do not support enforcing religious views by law because I believe in God-given freewill. Part of me wishes this practice of wife spanking waslimited to just one denomination so it could be easierto expose, but it is clear from the above examples that we cannot. Hes made the right call. General: Dont like scripture when it disagrees with your prejudices, you guys, do you? Ben and I agreed, but I wasnt sure how effective it would be, as Ben wasnt a good spanker. If he gets tired of his dominatrix, he needs to move out. Dad took off my slacks and panties and handed the strap to my husband. There is a judge and there is a criminal, the judge proclaims a sentence against the criminal which is carried out. Biblical Principles Which Determine a WomansWeight, Biblical Principles Which Determine a MansWeight. (LogOut/ 2010 The Thought & Expression Company, Inc. 50 Things I Want To Tell My Daughter On Her 18thBirthday, To The Mother Figures In Our Lives: You Made Us Who We AreToday, Time To Drink From Gold Chalices Love Is Blind Season 4 IsHere, Why Horror Is So Much Scarier When Its Located In A BigCity, My HIV+ Story Is One I Refuse To Be AshamedOf. Jennas Punishment Spanking (Christian Domestic Discipline Marriage #1) During a disagreement, Jenna storms out of the house without telling her husband where she's going. Im about the only one here who actually quotes scripture. And with those words, The Lone Voice Show is over and Spiritual Sounding Board returns in its channel and time slot. Even Satan quoted scripture. So, the testimonials in THIS VERY THREAD of wives who were shamed and beaten by their husbands are false simply because you declare them so? I debated putting this in the Godly ladies' thread but decided that I would risk my reputation to be thought of as forward because this is just too good to keep from men. [redacted] said the next morning Jamin made her wear a turtle neck to church so nobody would see the bruises. A Lone Voice, your voice will be really lonely in the SSB doghouse if you keep up with the condescending remarks. We are touching, hugging, playfully spanking, and making more love than ever before. It doesnt matter if millions of legitimate lives deviating from the average are frustrated and destroyed in the process, these are just data points). And yet. Domestic Discipline is the same sort of addictive behavior. She was there every step of the way. Anger is not sin, although we can sin in our anger. If more husbands would do this, we would have LESS divorces and better marriages. I dont remember a bible verse where Jesus said I had to be (bad word) against my will. Mark 11:26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses. For anything can be labelled an abuse with this method. As far as your point is made. You simply cannot say that as the visitors at my site are widely diverse. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. 2. As a society have always restricted what two consenting adults can do. They are, after all, of their father the devil who is known as the accuser of the brethren. It really is that good. His wife is swatting him with a riding crop because he failed to be a good pony and iron her clothes. The safety plan needs to be reviewed and modified whenever the situation changes e.g. Why are saddle-wearing men seen as free agents, capable of free thought, in direction of their own life? There is no such thing as physical discipline of a WIFE, period. Now, I will agree that vengeance itself is best left to God (and my experience is that He is quite good at it when we leave it to Him), but where people like wolf demand forgiveness, they contemptibly do at least two things: 1. Here are some tidbits of the arrest report: [redacted] told me Jamin has a couple of different hunting rifles, a couple of shot guns, a Glock pistol and another silver pistol. The stresses that can wreck marriages and the men/women Mars/Venus things just seems to go away. I want any other women reading this to know that your (Lone Voices) position is NOT biblical, and God created women to lead and teach men if he gifted them in those areas, and God created women to be equals with men in marriage. Just as with contracts, there can be duress in various forms, be it a demotion and other forms of financial abuse, bad grades and other forms of potentially public defamation, and just the simple threat of increased violence. 5 But if her father forbids her when he hears about it, none of her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand; the Lord will release her because her father has forbidden her. When you get to point of saying that none of these can be Christian women and if they are, they jolly well need to repent of their sin, then you are straining at gnats. As far as I can see, no one in this conversation is opposed to the Bible or its teachings, but to your interpretation of them. But just like a chocolate addict will eat carob in moments of dire necessity. This makes it all more more important for the victim and her supporters to be persistent in calling for help, and politely pressing for the workers and the justice system to do what they can do. All of that IS ok? Er . They like their wrists held, maybe, or even being tied to the bed. As for the judgment here power imbalance, physically hurting your partner, enjoying hurting your partner, sexualizing the pain, making your partner believe that you are the good and right adult while she is the bad child who deserves punishment, etc. (Ill let her tell you one way or the other, if she wants to.). Domestic Disciplining is consistent with the natural instincts of men and women which is why it has been practiced for so long, and why it will keep coming back over and over whether you like it or not. If some of them change their mind at some point, this is ok, but their testimonies do not make the lifestyle an abuse. I didnt see it as abuse. I wonder if we could have the connection. @Mark You are convinced that a woman can only be tricked into that kind of relationship, and you have decided to be quite closed minded with this regard to the extent that you think that people who think otherwise are sick. Was your church part of a particular denomination? First let me say that my husband and I have just recently found your site and think it is wonderful. You see women in an inferior place. Well, thats their altar. And the whole of sub-saharan Christian Africa. Just chalk it up to your personal preference and call it a day. When it comes to being intimate its only Ben , it would be a bad sin with anyone else. I agree with that. _50 SHADES OF GREY AND PATRIARCHY: WHAT EXACTLY DID WE EXPECT?_. So dont quote the half of a verse which you like, miss out the half you dont and then accuse me of distorting verses when all I did was quote them! _Benevolent sexism: Men who open doors for women can be as sexist as those who are rude to them, study finds_. I will say this. Was your church aware of what was going on? [redacted] said Jamin is very controlling. You need to give their views more serious study and attention. ), Lone Voice says, Wheres the barf bag? Ive been thinking about this quite a bit. But he never swore, or acted out of control. Yes, I believe there is a cut off line as to how old a child should be when he gets a spanking though.
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